A Few Things

Current mood: contemplative
Category: MySpace

I don't really write these kinds of blogs. I've just been having a few things on my mind lately:

Let me start with announcements:

I just signed up for 5000 texts and picture messages a month. I STILL will not be texting as much. After three texts each, we are having a conversation. When you get "call when you can.", the texting is over till you call.

I will be deleting almost ALL my new "friends". I just want you to read my blogs. I don't want to chat (unless it's about my blogs). I am not trying to get at you. [Even though some of you...(What I dream about doing..)] I am sticking to my REAL friends on MySpace and those who support my writing. So, goodbye babies!

I usually don't talk about my life but I have been so focused on living, there is little else to talk about lately.

I'm beginning to believe you can't be nice to people. You have to hold back. People truly take kindness for weakness. Even though people who do that to me are in for a rude awakening, I'm getting tired of pulling the rug out from under people. It's not just random people trying to take advantage. It's dating, It's not being monogamous [CLEARLY STATED AT THE OUTSET] but being too nice. It's women going WAY overboard to hold on to something that isn't there.

There was a blog a young guy used to write from LA about that very thing and I hadn't experienced it yet. I thought he was embellishing or leaving something out. He HAD to be making promises to these women. NOT THE CASE! Bachelors have to have rules. Can't break them NOT ONE BIT!
I have more...

...And not only in the dating world. I have always worked in customer service. Car sales though! Is WAY different! If you are nice to a customer on a car lot or repair shop or tire shop (just a few of the many things we do here!), they WILL NEVER GO ANYWHERE ELSE! All day the broke people call begging. EVERYDAY! Sucking the life out us. With the heat and the price of gas, I'm going to have to politely ask all my customers to GET OUT OF MY DAMNED FACE!!!. Thank you kindly.
I'm done venting for now. I have some hearts to go break...


No more texts???? Oh NO!!!! What's the world coming to? LOL! We are becoming a text happy society aren't we? Guess what, I heard there's actually a language for texts and you can add it to your job resume'...now aint that some shit?

I gotta say hold up on deleting the friends. After all, what would life be if 500 complete strangers couldn't read your most intimate thoughts on a regular basis?

And, I can't speak about being nice to people. But, I do believe that slapping is a vastly underutilized form of physical expression! Damn it, sometimes people just don't get it! But, we should be more than willing to help.

And, in conclusion, LONG LIVE THE PLAYA RULES! Like you said it's dating, it ain't a relationship!

Wow...I agree with you on everything you express.
I can't stand texting. pick up the phone and call me. It's okay to text once in a while, but if everytime we talk, it's through a text...I'm annoyed, i don't like it, yet i'm too nice to tell them, so i go ahead and text back.

And it seems like i can't be nice without a guy thinking i want them or that i'm trying to win points with them or that i'm trying to compete with other women their dating. Naturally i am nice, caring and giving. If i'm albe to, i will help you out and be there for you, but that doesn't mean i want to hook up with you, And when i pull back, because their getting the wrong idea, all of a sudden i'm considered mean.

i do things not expecting anything back.

As far as deleting your NEW friends: i understand, that's why my page is private, that's why not even my family can request me as a friend when they find me, have to request them and that's why everyone who is on my page are people i know personally, people i have interacted with on a personal level. Well, i'm sure the people you let go, will miss you and probably regret their actions.

I know this cat Twis(You know who i'm talking about) ain't speaking bout the playa rules!!!! lol
I had to comment about this. Well when it comes to being too nice to a female in that particular context you will be over time eventually looked at as a wuss! I say be mean if it warrants itself, and when I say that I mean be yourself! If your an asshole by trade then be an asshole with the opposite sex. If they are really trynna get to know you then you will know. You don't have to commandeer yourself to someone else's standards when it comes to a relationship. Its better this way because both parties know where they stand! If your not an asshole and you really are a nice guy then be that and nothing else. That particular other will eventually come around! Don't stress........
In essence: BE YOURSELF(Whatever your comfortable with).

No Kudos
JR

BTW stop dreaming about talking to the ones you want to talk to on myspace and just send them a note because you never know untill you try........

JR

Oh I do! Only ever do. Never try.

<---Just realized LA is not his friend and is not subscribed to his blog :-O

(Damn, that was QUICK.)

BTW: I replied to your blog comment - Gracias.

~Sway

OMG!

LADIES AND GENTLEMEN. THIS MAN IS THE KING OF BLOGS. FORGET ALL THAT CORNY SHIT PEOPLE DO TO GET THEIR BLOGS READ. READ THIS MAN FOR PURE INFOTAINMENT!

CHASE SWAYZE!!!LADIES AND GENTLEMEN!!!!

Let me just say I just starting texting 2 months ago. While I believe that texting has its place (trying to conserve day time minutes, too loud to have a conversion where you are, just needing to a relay a quick note, etc) it should not be your main form of conversion. It would take forever to get to know someone that way. And there is no way an emoticon can relay feelings better that the inflection in someone's voice. So I say pick up the phone!

Also, If you are a nice guy, continue being nice. Don't let people change who you are as a person. I know some people read more than what's there, but just change your interactions with those individuals. I try to be nice in general but sometimes nice just doesn't cut it, so get where your coming from. But I know I feel about myself when I am nice to others. But sometimes, not often, the bitch comes out. And then I think, well I tried to be nice but he only understood bitch.

Just adding my two cents...
I get the same when I choose to assert my authoritai! All of a sudden not being a pushover makes you pushy.

Good grief.

You're safe baby! I'm going to need somewhere to crash next year for Caribana.