It’s Not My Fault

Current mood: rebellious
Category: Life

In the business that I'm in, liability and fault always seems to come up. Since I work almost ALL the time, (I need to talk to my boss about that) I have started to consider fault in my personal life as well as the community as a whole. I have come to realize that while A LOT of lowlifes choose to find fault with what I do, none of it is my fault. Not a bit.

For instance:

It's not my fault my cousin let all his money get spent by a whore who kicked him out of his own house when the money was gone and now he has to live with me. No! Not my fault at all. I begged him to come to Georgia. I begged her to come to Georgia with him. She said no. He obeyed. She spent all his money. She sent him to me broke. Now he has to start from scratch. Any help I offer now should be considered a blessing. But you know niggers... After a place to stay, a job, and more life experiences than he's had his entire 50 year life, I still must owe him something. But guess what...
I will kick your ass out!!!

And not feel any way about it.

So the question is - why would anyone or how could anyone see things any other way?
Like why do naked-dickers like to tell you why you should feel bad for them? "I don't have a degree." Why did you drop out of Junior High? "I got a bad heart." Why'd you smoke so much crack? "I have too many kids!" Why do you keep naked-dicking the same broke dude? "I keep getting pulled over." Why you keep speeding? Why you keep blasting music in church parking lots? Why do you insist on rolling with ALL four of your friends ALL the time, EVERYWHERE you go?

It's not racial profiling, it's just profiliing. You fit the profile.Not the profile of a black/hispanic/asian or whatever person. You fit the profile of a loser! It's not because they don't like gays that you didn't get the job. YOU SHOWED UP IN FLIP-FLOPS!

Why is it our fault? Why is it so hard for the naked-dickers to take responsibility for their own actions? Let me give you all what you've been missing from your life.
There are consequences for each and every decision you make.

AND

You have to live with the decisions you make!

If you don't go to school, you are stupid. Behave accordingly. Sure you can learn to read on your own and pick up skills in the streets, but you didn't do any of that. All you do is smoke weed and watch TV. So NOW you are dumberer.

No one has all the tools to win at life coming out the gate. Rich kids may be missing social skills or a work ethic. Poor kids may be missing networking skills or the proper education. Some children grow up full of love but lacking common sense. They are all going to make mistakes. Some big ones, some small ones. The successful ones are the ones who recognize what they lack and learn from their mistakes.

Your life is ALL your fault. Appreciate it or get a new one. It's all on you



Preach brotha preach!

JR

AND...Some of yall think Suga Free is a gimmick and it ain't my fault if the game reveals itself to you and you don't want to take it for what it is. It ain't my fault if you're scared to bring the truth into your life.

Thanks for the invite to your blog.

I feel ya...in a sense. I do agree that there are consequences for each and every decision you make and you have to live with those decisions. Everything in life is basically cause and effect...your thoughts are the cause and the actions are the effect. However, society in general has programmed us to think a certain way, to act a certain way and because the brain is something that needs training, change does not happen overnight nor will it be "cured" by a deity. Change has to start with questions and if one doesnt know that its inevitable that the being will fail. Questions allow to brain to work and to navigate through life. If it doesnt come up with an answer, it will ask other questions for one to reach their goal. In addition, most people dont know what questions they need to ask and end up worse off than they started.

No, its not your fault. You are responsible for you and you alone but dont you have a duty to your fellow man to assist in times of need? Dont get me wrong, my mother is a crackhead and my grandmother still continues to support her even though she raised my sister and I. I even watched her give away 4 of my sibilings for adoption so no, I dont feel sorry for people like that. But there are some people who really have goals, ambition and are enthustatic about reaching their goals but they really dont know how to do it. Thats where people who can lend an ear to even listen could really help. Not necassirly with marterial things, but an ear could help tremendously.

The willie lynch letter...most of us have heard of it. To be honest with you, in my opinion I feel as though that was the basis of us begining to hate ourselves. We are caught up in mental slavery and will continue to go on until someone unselfishly can point to the root of the problem and begin to ask the question, how do we make better humans now knowing whats wrong. Most of us simply hate ourselves and dont even know it.

So could I see things in a different light, of course. But I also know that I didnt come into the world "a sinner" (lol) but I learned from my enviornment. If my environment doesnt teach me more than what they know, where am I getting my programming from. More than likely the Tv, mass media, other crap going on around me, my school system...etc. Because no one taught me I should think for myself, ask challenging questions and program my own life because...there aint no treasure at the end of the rainbow for thinking a certain way (hope you caught that), I ended up being what society wanted me to be...mentally enslaved.

Most people just dont know that they can change their lives but it takes work. It takes training. It takes refection. It takes energy. It takes ASKING THE RIGHT QUESTIONS! So I dont blame all of us for being "dumb". We just werent born that way, we learned to be that way.

Because I asked myself challenging questions (and didnt even know it) I came across this book and didnt read it for a while. When I decided to, my whole world opened up. And I have challenges, who doesnt. But there was something that stuck out to me (among other things):

A man's mind may be likened to a garden, which may be intelligently cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or neglected, it must, and will bring forth. If no useful seeds are put into it, then an abundance of useless weed-seeds will fall therein, and will continue to produce their kind.

To me, thats the basis of change...of cause and effect but if you dont know this, then how can you begin to change. Its bit of a challenge and as a community we should help each other discover this but...remember willie lynch...he was right. Our mental slavery will last over some 200 years because we have learned to depend on them and not on ourselves. Look around...black people are the only race that cannot seem to unite and there is a root for that. We need to encourage each other to find that instead of allowing our own to be the object of ridicule. Now, who's fault is that.

Each one teach one.

I think you hit on the real root of this blog. Does our duty to our fellow man ever end? God protects babies and fools. Forever? Does that mean the low lifes andd freeloaders get to mooch indefinitely? Because I'm tired and I'm only 30...

Well, in my opinion, there is no god that protects babies and fools so we as humans have to protect our babies, if not, they gon turn into fools. Hell no, not forever. I think you kinda missed what I was trying to say. I meant someone who doesnt know how to go and has been raised in that type of enviornent and the people who raised them were raised the same way may not know the first step to change. Most of my folks back home would say go to church. I would say, it starts by taking back your ability to think. That you are not a robot, your life was not planned, you create every stich and every way of your life and that you ARE responsibile. Once most could even accept it and believe me, a lot of folks CANT even understand that....they dont understand that they have been simply doing what others tell them to do and forget that they even have a brain...their subconscious is RULING their lives. Now, to people who know this, they can do one of two things...They can manipulate others into their way of thinking and make them mentally dependent on them....mental slavery in other words or people (I guess kinda like me) can give you the knowlege, its up to you to accept it and do your own research and find your own way or you Dcan just dismiss it. But understand, its foolish for me to say that everyone who has ever wanted or needed help were freeloaders and get to mooch because thats not the case. But for those who have basically made the same actions over and over and over and over and over and over and really think the results are going to change is your definition of insanity. Ignorant. Stupid. Vile. CRAZY! You must do something different to spark change....first know that you are your creator and your life is left up to you...no invisible friends are going to help you with that one....after all, its those friends who say that they rule you anyway.

Dont get me wrong. This topic of this discussion is something that has made me tired, however Im tired about alot of other things that are going on in the world right now that affects us (as humans) in a whole. Like how it really doesnt matter if you vote or not because the people you see on tv are only puppets for the real headmaster behind the plan to be ultimately controlled. Why these same people are designing a new world order for a one government world? How you and your children and your grandchildren will be victims of this because no one before them gave them any warning...they would coming into the world being "chipped", tracked, basically having other people censor the way they think. No one was able to tell them because the people who should (present day humans) are too busy watching tv, going to the mall, trying to find the hottest trend to "keep up", people not reading, people taking religion to being their master..and in fact the same people who are pushing the scheme of a lifetime are the same people who control your money, takes your money illegally, creates your religion...at least all the major ones and the same public school system our children are learning from because mom doesnt have the time to educate her sons and daughters how to think because she doesnt think enough to know that working 2 jobs just to make ends meet are slowing the progression of her childrens brain. NO one has taught her what the fundamentals are to maybe start her own business, learn a skill or a trade that will give her more flexibility so she can spend more time with her kids and not letting the school system or the church be the deciding factor in how they should live. But if she dont even know basic communication skills or even that she can take back her ability to think then how she gon teach them? Who will be the next victims? Thats the mental slavery IM tired of.

Think of those one of 2 things I can do. I aint talking bout lending out money like Im an ATM, I aint talking about making my house a shelter for the homeless, Im talking about listening to someone, giving them what I feel is the basic component for humans and especailly those living in America and other industralized countries is that we have become dependent on a system, an elite group of people who wants to ultimately control us and we give them the power to by refusing to think...refusing to read....refusing to take back the only thing they shouldnt be able to. I think the topic of your blog may have dealt with a little more as in help in the material world and I took it a bit farther than just the material world.

Low lives and freeloaders mooch because people let them do it. Ive witnessed it first hand for the last past 24 years with just my parents. If you let people run over you, they will. You also have to have some sense as to know when to let go. Dont be a fool cause your imaginary friend cant take care of you.

IF YOU DONT READ NOTHING ELSE ON THIS PAGE, PLEASE READ THIS SHORT EXCERT. THEN GO BACK AND READ MY RESPONSE BUT DO SO IN WHOLE, FOR SOME REASON I DONT FEEL LIKE YA DID :-)


****A strong man cannot help a weaker unless that weaker is willing to be helped. And even then the weak man must become strong of himself. He must, by his own efforts, develop the strength which he admires in another. None but himself can alter his condition.

****It has been usual for men to think and say, many men are slaves because one is an oppressor let us hate the oppressor! But there is amongst an increasing few a tendency to reverse this judgement and say "One man in an oppressor and slaves are cooperators in ignorance, and, while seeming to afflict each other, are in reality, afflicting themselves. A perfect knowledge perceives the action of law in the weakness of the oppressed and the misapplied power of the oppressor. A perfect love, seeing the suffering which both states entail, condemns neither; a perfect compassion embraces both the oppressor and oppressed.


****A man can only rise, conqueer and ahcieve by lifting up his thoughts. He can only remain weak, abject, and miserably by refusing to life up his thoughts...James Allen


Hey, my responses can be long because these are things that are passionate to me. When you get the chance, read the whole response...I think you would respond a lil more than what you did :-)
(sorry, dont have time to spellcheck!)

Now that's real talk...

And here I thought I was just on a rant. Thanks for reading!

You couldn't have said that any better. Great blog! Thanks for the invite
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You are welcome. I really appreciate you taking the time to read it.

Thanks for the invite to your blog. Dude, its several folks in my family that definitely need to read and take heed to this message. Well said my brother!

Blessings,
Affy

I knew I wasn't the only one. Stay tuned, I got more

OMG!!! If I let my mind think about all the things in this blog I would have an identical read on my page....thanks for getting it off your (our) chest Jason...

I try. It's not easy to stay deep in a shallow world!